Coaching is not the same as counseling or mentoring, instructing,
teaching, training or consulting. Therapy general focuses on helping the
client to feel better about himself on a particular situation he is in; so that
he may function better within that context.
Coaching on the other hand,
can and will continue to push proactively into spaces and places where normal
functioning can be enhanced, not just treated.
Mentoring is the sharing of greater experience with
some one less experienced, creating a hierarchical relationship, where the
mentor guides the mentee on ‘’how things are done around this place’’ or ’’what
the path to success is in this company’’.
Mentor shares his wisdom that he gained through many years of
experience.
Mentoring and coaching diverge around goals, empowerment and
resources and strives to develop these, whereas mentoring may supply of these. There are overlapping areas. In coaching relationship there is an element
of mentoring when it is appropriate.
Consulting is another activity and is usually about a
process of analysis, definition issues, development of solutions and making
recommendations. Consultants come, find,
sort, solve and then they leave.
Coach analyses, test, and interpret results too. It helps us plan
our focus and determine needs as well as strengths that can be leveraged
on. The role of the person being coached
is to own his issues, develop his situations and builds his own future with the
coach’s help. A coach will help to keep
track the coachees’ needs, check priorities against values, goals and needs,
and make progress. But a coach will not
solve anything as a consultant does. A
coach just shares his knowledge to help solve issues by brainstorming on resources,
ideas and suggestions.
Coaching involves a unique process that focuses on developing the
person; his own goals, resources and accomplishments, and carries its own
processes, assumptions and theories.
STEPS
OF COACHING
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1.
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Setting
the foundation
-ethical guidelines
-professional standards
Establishing
coaching agreement
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2.
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Co-creating the relationship[
-establishing
trust and intimacy
-presence
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3.
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Communicating
effectively
-active listening
-powerful questioning
-direct communication
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4.
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Facilitating learning and
results
-creating
awareness
-designing
actions
-planning
and goal setting
-managing
progress and accountability
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Coaching has been adapted by a growing number of organizations as
a learning tool that has special emphasis on individual growth and
development. It allows for specific
groups to be targeted.
John Read
Helping
you to grow
TheStar Tuesday 2 August 2011
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