JEEDA'S LOVE AND PASSION
Wednesday, December 22, 2021
THE 3 IMPORTANT THINGS IN LIFE
Saturday, December 18, 2021
THE PRECIOUS PAST
THE PRECIOUS PAST
The more precious your past is,
The more it should remain in your memories
ALICE (2020), KOREAN DRAMA, NETFLIX
INTRODUCTION
Past is something that has occurred before the present. Past can also be used to refer to a time before and until the present. In short, past is simply the set of all events that occurred before a given point in time. In time, the past will be memories
Memories are very essential in our lives as they allow us to grow and learn to be a better person. The reflections can help us learn very important life lessons. Memories make us who we are. It plays a vital role in every aspects of our lives. Memories also provides us with a sense of self and makes up our continual experience of life.
Some people find bad experiences stands out more than the good memories
THE IMPORTANCE OF HAPPY MEMORIES
1. Forms the cornerstone of our identity
2. Helps with combating depression and loneliness
3. Influence our current happiness
4. Providing a framework for our hopes and dreams
5. Increase happiness
6. Helps make positive choices
7. Can be used to transform our life
FAMOUS QUOTES
1. AT SOME PART OF LIFE OR THE OTHER, WE ALL BECOME MEMORIES FOR OTHERS. SO MAKE SURE YOU BE A GOOD ONE
Graciousquates.com
2. …THE ONLY REASON PEOPLE HOLD ON TO MEMORIES SO TIGHTLY IS BECAUSE MEMORIES ARE THE ONLY THING THAT DON’T CHANGE WHEN EVERYBODY ELSE DOES
Quotesgram.com
3. MEMORY IS A RECORD OF YOR PERSONAL EXPERIENCE. IT IS A RECORD OF TRIAL AND ERROR, DEFEAT AND SUCCESS. PAST FAILURES WILL WARN YOU AGAINST REPEATING THEM
Wilfred Peterson
Inspirationfeed.com
4. MEMORIES,
IMPORTANT YESTERDAYS,
WERE ONCE TODAYS,
TREASURE AND NOTICE TODAY
Gloria Gaither
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5. A BEAUTIFUL LIFE IS A COLLECTION OF UNFORGETABLE MOMENTS
Living.com.org
SUMMARY
Memories are destined to fade. It can’t last forever. People who have happy memories tend to be happier overall. Remembering happy things from the past can improve mood and increase happiness.
REFERENCES
1. merrian-webster.com
2. dictionary.cambridge.org
3. wikipedia.org
4. www.albertafilipinojournal
5. www.goodtherapy.org.blog
6. www.marieclaire.co.uk
7. www.verywellmind.com
8. https://monq.com/eo/nostalgia/remembering-happy-memories-make-happier/
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
BLINDSPOT IN LEADERSHIP
1. Doing it alone/afraid to ask for help2. Being insensitive of own behaviours on others3. Having an ‘I know’ attitude4. Avoiding conflicts5. Blaming others or circumstances6. Treating commitments casually7. Conspiring against others8. Withholding emotional commitment9. Not taking a stand10. Tolerating ‘good enough’
1. Pride bordering arrogance
i. Overconfidenceii. Overly positiveiii. Power
2. Frequent unseen weakness
i. Spending time on operations rather than strategic thinkingii. Relying on own opinionsiii. Inability to balance the ‘what’ and ‘how’ of reaching a goaliv. Relying on assumptions
v. Over-valuing how things are done in the past
3. Old school leadership mentality
Friday, October 18, 2019
COACHING TRANSFORMATIONAL LEADERS
Coaching doesn't make sick people well, but makes ordinary people extra ordinary. Coaching is the interaction that occurs between people which produces desired performance. Coaching is thus performance focused but people centered.
Mentoring is the voluntary action between a willing experienced senior and willing grateful junior. It is the process of sharing of tacit knowledge and experiences.
Coaches uses appreciative inquiry (questioning); active listening (only hearing); unbiased observation (look-see, look-see); constructive feedback (criticise and give comments); and support where appropriate.
Foe effective coaching, coaches need to shut up; listen; observe and get out of the way. Thus the competencies needed are:
- emotional (relationship management)
- rational ( intellect, analysis, problem-solving)
- ethical (values, meaning, respect)
- able to relate to others
- have high EQ
- know yourself
- manage yourself
- know others
- manage relationship
Sunday, April 14, 2019
WHY MOTIVATING PEOPLE DOESN'T WORK - PART 3
- Reward Power
- Coercive Power
- Referent Power
- Legitimate Power
- Export Power
- Information Power
- Assuming that people are unmotivated if they are checking their text messenger or tweeting instead of paying attention
- forcing someone to feel a sense of relatedness
- imposing growth and learning on a person
WHY MOTIVATING PEOPLE DOESN'T WORK - PART 2
Thursday, April 4, 2019
WHY MOTIVATING PEOPLE DOESN'T WORK - PART 1
- perform above standard expectations
- uses discretionary effort on behalf of the organisation
- endorses the organisation and it's leadership to others outside the organisation
- uses altruistic citizenship behaviours towards all stakeholders
- stay with the organisation