Wednesday, September 9, 2015

WHY BEING AN ALPHA FEMALE DOESN’T WORK




1.    Men want women who are intelligent and can think for themselves.  They want someone they can be proud of at their side.

2.    Men don’t want to be controlled or told what to do.
They do not feel good when being told how to do their job either at work or at home, especially when they haven’t asked for your opinion.  The men wants to be your hero, trying his best to be that for you.

3.    Men want a relationship, not a competition.
When a women is an alpha and the men is an alpha too, you’ll have two leaders and a lot of competition.  When a men competes, he wants to win, and he will do what it takes to make that happen.  So, use your feminine side, use your heart over your mind, and it will take the power struggle out, thus bringing the best in him

4.    Over-giving is a masculine alpha quality.
The roles that women need protection and needing a man to provide for women to survive is in our DNA coding.  Careful because when you over give, you become a men’s mother, not his partner.

5.    Men need to be needed.
We may be strong and as women, we need to be strong emotionally for the family and the relationship.  So leave room for a man to be needed and be doing for you.

Having said those, it doesn’t mean women have to be lying down like a door mat and just allow men to walk on you.  It just means learning how to bring out the best in a men and in turn he will bring out the best in you.


Shared From Article by
Lisa Copeland
(Tribune News Service)
Star2, Monday,
20 April 2015

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