7 THINGS YOU FORGET YOU’RE DOING WRONG
(EXTRACTION
FROM POST: 11 THINGS YOU FORGET YOU’RE DOING WRONG, WRITTEN BY: MARC AT http://www.marcandangel.com)
1. Making blind
judgments.
Don’t
always judge a person by what they show you.
What you’ve seen is often times only what that person has chosen to show
you, or what they were driven to show based on their inner stress and
pain. Too often we jump to conclusions,
only to cause ourselves and others unnecessary worry, hurt, and anger. So exercise restraint, be kind, and save the
jumping for joy.
2. Expecting
people to be perfect.
When you
stop expecting people to be perfect, you can start appreciating them for who
they truly are.
3. Holding on to
the wrong things for too long.
To let go
isn’t to forget. Letting go involves
cherishing the memories, overcoming the obstacles, and moving on. To let go is to be thankful for the
experiences that made you laugh, made you cry, and helped you learn and
grow. It’s the acceptance of everything
you have, everything you once had, and the possibilities that lie ahead. It’s all about finding the strength to
embrace life’s changes and continue taking positive steps forward.
4. Denying your
mistakes.
Mistakes
are almost always forgivable if you have the courage to admit them. You have to be courageous and wise enough to
know that if what you are doing isn’t producing the desired results, you must
take different actions. Sometimes
falling flat on your face is exactly what’s needed to help you see things from
a totally different perspective, and get back on track.
5. Avoiding your
fears.
Go to
your fears, sit with them, and stare at them.
Your fears are your friend; their only job is to show you undeveloped
parts of yourself that you need to cultivate to live a happy life. The more you do the things you’re most afraid
of doing, the more life opens up.
Embrace your fears and your fears will embrace you.
6. Worrying about things that can’t be changed.
One of
the happiest moments ever is when you feel the courage to let go of what you
can’t change. Refuse to ruin a perfectly
good today by thinking about a bad yesterday.
The past cannot be changed, forgotten, or erased. However, the lessons learned can prepare you
for a brighter tomorrow.
7. Thinking it’s too late.
You can
choose to blame your circumstances on fate or bad luck or bad choices, or you
can fight back. Things aren’t always
going to be fair in the real world; that’s just the way it is. But for the most part you get what you
give. The rest of your life is being
shaped by the goals you chase, the choices you make, and the actions you
take. The rest of your life is a long
time, and it starts right now.
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