Helping Your People Develop Emotional Intelligence
By focusing on increasing your people's
emotional intelligence, you can reap many benefits from improved teamwork. Emotional Intelligence , also called EI. It is partly the ability to recognize and
control your own emotions, and understand what those emotions are telling you. It also means that you can recognize the
emotional wants and needs of others and respond appropriately. EI determines your self-awareness and your
people skills.
EI is necessary for:
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building trust,
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creating a sense of identity and
efficacy,
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solving problems with others,
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cooperating, and
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participating productively.
When emotionally intelligent people work
together, they have the ability to
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sweep aside minor conflicts in order to
focus on the team's interests
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deal well with more serious conflicts
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grow from any disagreements that may
arise
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perform better and experience more job
Building
Emotional Intelligence
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Start With Yourself
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lead by
example
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staying
aware of your own thoughts and feelings, and managing them, so that you
affect other people positively
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Communicate the Benefits
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communicate
the benefits that they can expect
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Develop Self-Awareness
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People who
are self-aware understand their own thoughts and emotions, as well as
understanding how their actions affect others around them
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build employees’
self-awareness by asking for their opinions on decisions
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set aside
time to talk about difficult situations or issues
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encourage
your team members to open up and talk about what they're thinking and feeling,
the more likely they are to develop self-awareness
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Strengthen Communication
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People with
high EI typically have excellent communication skills
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Develop
better communication by teaching people to understand body language
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knowing how
to deal with negative emotions
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set aside
five minutes of each meeting for complaints and frustrations
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let your
team know that their criticisms won't be frowned upon
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create fun
ways to acknowledge and deal with stress or tension
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Teach
everyone on your team to use active listening skills
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respect
other people when they're speaking
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Build Optimism
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ability to
think positively is an important part
of EI
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positive
thinking means acknowledging bad news and rationally deciding how to handle
it
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Encourage Healthy
Conflict
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engage in
conflict in a healthy way
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everyone's
perspective is respected when they communicate their views
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Make it
clear that conflicts should never get personal
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Set ground
rules
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Set Specific Learning
Goals
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help each
person discover their strengths and weaknesses
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set clear,
specific goals to help each person
work on their weaknesses
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provide
constructive feedback on each
person's progress
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word of
encouragement or a helpful observation will go a long way
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