Wednesday, February 20, 2013

CHOOSE THE RIGHT CHOICE




Choices, choose and decide are the 3 important thing that we do every minute of our life.  Right from the moment we wake up until we go to bed, there’s hundreds of decisions to be made from the many choices that we have.

So, do make the right choice.  Do not regret not making a choice.  Choose what you thing is best for you.  It’s better regretting making the choice rather than regretting in not making any choice.  Choose to live a happy life, an enjoyable life, a lonely life or even a stressful life.  The choice is yours.  Choose what’s best for you. Choose wisely.

1.         Choose to make a choice.  Do not wait until it’s too late
There’s always this debate in our mind trying to make the best choice ever.  Sometimes it takes a while to make that decision on which choice is the best to choose from.  It gets harder if there are too many choices.
Sometimes the choices get complicated when deep emotion is involved.  But when choices to be made are related to love ones, please do not wait too long.  You’ll never know when it’s too late to ever make a choice.  It’s your decision not to make any choice.  It’s your decision whether to choose or not to choose.  Do not make yourself regret the moment forever.
 
2.         Choose to make good choices for the future.  There’s nothing we can do about the past
They say the furthest thing from you is the past.  The past is something that you can never have back.  There’s no such thing as turning back the time.  Nobody can ever go back to yesterday to undo what has been done.  What is left is just moving forward, taking the past as experience to be learned.
The journey of life provides us with valuable lessons.  Lessons from experiences that we go through.  Lessons from mistakes that we made.  All those come from the choices that we choose.  At the end of the life journey, hopefully we’ll be a better and wiser person. Move forward, and embrace the future gracefully with great wisdom.  Through the journey of life, with lessons learned, we’ll be able to make good choices for the future.

3.         Choose to spent time with people you love
Time is precious and priceless.  Some even say time is of essence.  Time cannot be bought nor can it be turned back.  We cannot have back the youth that we once had, nor can we have back the strong and healthy body that we had when we are young.
Spent your time wisely.  Spare and allocate time to be with our love ones.  Allocate those time for them while you’re still strong and healthy.  Do not wait until we are weak, old and sickly to be with our love ones.  It’s too late to enjoy what time is left.

4.         Choose to see the funny side of life
Everything happens for a reason.  Things that happen in your life evoke all sorts of feelings.  Feelings that later will develop into a stronger emotion like happy, sad and maybe anger.  There’s always the other side of the coin to everything.  One can lead an unstressful life by looking at the funny side of thing that happens.
Ever try laughing at yourself; at what you do?  Try it sometimes.  Laugh at yourself; at what happens to you.  Laughing at yourself is not an easy task.  But try to do it, as laughter can help you go through life positively.  Practice the laugh therapy.  Do not laugh at others. That definitely is not it.  Make living fun.  You get more friends.  Make more friends.

5.         Choose to write our own story
You, you and only you are the script writer of your own story.  No one else can write your life story for you.  Nobody can tell you what you are going to be in 10 years’ time.  Choose the choice that is most appropriate for you.  Decide wisely on the choice because that’s going to be your story.
Do let others write the story of your life for you. They may provide the guidance, show the path and provide the appropriate resources needed for the journey.  Do not feel down when the story doesn’t go the way you want it to be.  Do not be discouraged.  Only with effort, strength and the will to achieve success you’ll be able to continue writing to success.  What has been written cannot be erased.  But you sure can write it better to get to the perfect ending.  You are the author.  Have faith in Allah s.w.t.


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