15 REALITY TO SUCCESS

1.   SUCCESS IS WHERE YOU WANT IT.  NEVER LET FAILURE SLOW YOU DOWN.  NEVER LET FAILURE SCARE YOU IN LIFE.  LET FAILURE BE THE TEACHER OF LIFE, SO THAT YOU WON'T LET IT BE ANYWHERE NEAR AGAIN.

2.   LEARN FROM FAILURE, THE PATH TO SUCCESS.  SEE IT WITH OPENED EYES, OPENED EARS, AND OPENED MIND.  MAKE THE WISE AND RIGHT DECISIONS.  FAILURE MAY HAVE HURT YOU BADLY IN TRYING TO ACHIEVE SUCCESS.  BE SURE TO LEARN FROM IT.

3.   PEOPLE ARE IMPORTANT TO SUCCEED IN LIFE.  NEED THEM AS FRIENDS, SUPPORTER, WORKER, TEAM, AND SO ON.  BE SURE YOU CHOOSE WELL.  KNOW WHO IS YOUR FRIEND AND WHO IS YOUR FOE.  AS THEY SAY, 'BETTER THE DEVIL YOU KNOW......'

4.   LEADERSHIP AND MANAGEMENT IS VITAL TO SUCCESS.  POOR DECISION IS BAD, BUT LACK OF DECISION IS WORST, SO BE WISE, AND MAKE GOOD  DECISION.  POOR ACCOUNTABILITY WILL LEAD TO HAVOC, SO BE SURE TO DELEGATE ACCORDINGLY WITH APPROPRIATE AUTHORITY AND RESPONSIBILITY.  LACK OF RESPECT WILL LEAD TO CHAOS AND FAILURE, SO BE WISE TO HAVE RESPECT AS ORGANIZATION'S SHARED VALUE.  MAKE SURE NOT TO PUSH SOMETHING DUE TO PERSONAL AGENDA, REMEMBER, EVEN IF NOBODY KNOWS, GOD KNOWS.....   COMMUNICATION IS THE MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL, SO MAKE SURE THE CORRECT MESSAGE IS BEING COMMUNICATED DOWN THE LINE....

5.   SUCCESS IS TEAMWORK.  THERE SHOULD BE TOLERANCE IN A TEAM.  COOPERATION IS IMPORTANT, LISTEN, AND MAKE AGREED DECISIONS, HAVE THE POLICY OF 'AGREE TO DISAGREE' SO THAT WISE DECISIONS CAN BE MADE.

6.   NETWORKING IS IMPORTANT TO SUCCEED.  BE FRIENDLY, LEARN AND PRACTICE GOOD COMMUNICATION SKILLS.  BE AN GOOD NEGOTIATOR.  KNOW THE BODY LANGUAGE.  KEEP THE NETWORK, IT WILL DO MORE GOOD THAN HARM.

   

7.   WORKING TOGETHER WITH COLLEAGUE WILL LEAD TO SUCCESS.  DO NOT UNDER RATE OR UNDER ESTIMATE COLLEAGUES' POTENTIAL.  RESPECT THEIR IDEAS.  PRESENT AND MAKE THEM UNDERSTAND YOUR IDEA.  DO NOT GIVE UP BEFORE EXHAUSTING ALL EFFORT.

8.  SHARING SUCCESS WITH COLLEAGUES IS A WINNER'S ATTITUDE.  NEVER CLAIM SUCCESS AS YOUR OWN SINCE NOBODY WORK IN SOLIDARITY.  SHARING SUCCESS DOESN'T MEAN PEOPLE DO NOT RECOGNIZE THE CREDIT, RECOGNITION COMES IN MANY FORMS.  SHARING IS TOGETHERNESS AS IN SUCCESS OR FAILURE....

9.  BE A CONTRIBUTOR TO SUCCESS.  THINK POSITIVE.  DO NOT BE AFRAID TO VOICE OUT YOUR OPINION. IT MAY NOT BE RECOGNIZED NOW, BUT IN YEARS TO COME, SOMEONE WILL REMEMBER IT.....  LOVE YOURSELF AND OTHERS WILL LOVE YOU.

10.   SUCCESS IS KNOWING.  KNOWING THE LIMITS (ABILITY, RESOURCES ETC).  KNOWING WHEN TO STOP.  KNOWING WHEN TO START NEW.  KNOWING WHOSE THE BEST.  KNOWING THE RIGHT MIX OF TEAM MEMBERS....ALL THE BEST IN ONE TEAM DOESN'T MEAN YOU'LL GET THE BEST RESULT.  SO DECIDE WISELY.

11.   GETTING THE RIGHT MESSAGE ACROSS IS IMPORTANT TO SUCCEED.  WITHOUT IT PEOPLE WILL NOT UNDERSTAND THE WAY FORWARD AND DOWN THE LINE PEOPLE WILL MAKE UNWISE DECISION.  COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE, AND COMMUNICATE.....   COMMUNICATION IS MORE EFFECTIVE WHEN DONE PERSONALLY AS PAPER INSTRUCTION AND PROCEDURES BARES NO PERSONAL TOUCH AND IS OPEN TO MANY INTERPRETATION.

12.  SUCCESS DOES NOT COME IN SILOS.  HAVE A THINK TANK. ITS GOOD TO DISCUSS THOUGHTS WITH PERSONS OF DIFFERENT OPINION SO THAT A WELL THOUGHT DECISIONS OR OPINION CAN BE FORMED.  BEING IN THE POSITION YOU ARE, YOU MAY NOT KNOW WHO IS REALLY GIVING OPINIONS FROM THE HEART, AND WHO IS GIVING IT AS TRYING TO 'CAPTURE' YOUR HEART.  PRACTICE OPEN MIND AND PROFESSIONALISM DURING DISCUSSIONS.  DO NOT TAKE EVERY COMMENTS AS PERSONAL.  DO NOT BE DEFENSIVE.  DEFENSIVE CAN LEAD TO MIND BLOCKING AND PREJUDGMENT.

                 

13.  SUCCESS IS MANY SPLENDOR THINGS.  BE CAREFUL WHEN DEFINING SUCCESS.  SUCCESS IN THE EYE OF MANAGEMENT AND BOSSES ARE ACTUALLY VERY DIFFERENT FROM SUCCESS IN THE EYE OF THE PEOPLE.  BE MODERATE IN EVERYTHING AND SUCCESS WILL BE WITH YOU....  REMEMBER THAT IN LIFE, WORK IS JUST ONE SMALL PART OF SUCCESS.

14.   KNOW THE PATH TO SUCCESS.  CLEAR VISIONS MUST BE VISUALIZE BY OTHERS.  GIVE CLEAR DIRECTION THE WAY FORWARD.  PROVIDE GOOD DECISION SO THAT PEOPLE UNDERSTAND AND THE PATH TO SUCCESS WILL BE CLEAR.  STRATEGISE THE WAY FORWARD SO THAT PEOPLE WILL NOT BE DROWNED WHEN TRYING TO REACH THE GOAL.

15.   BE CAREFUL OF SUCCESS.  IT WILL BLIND YOU TO EVERYTHING.  PAUSE AND HAVE A LOOK AROUND.  WHAT MAY SEEMED LIKE SUCCESS MAY NOT BE AS IT IS.  BE A GOOD LISTENER.  BE A GOOD OBSERVER.  BE UNDERSTANDING.  BE SUPPORTIVE.  SEE IT FOR WHAT IT REALLY IS. DO NOT BE BLINDED IN TRYING TO PLEASE OTHERS.

         

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